Sometimes I wonder if having an ED also creates a link to wrong choices in partners at times? Maybe we feel so bad about ourselves inside and out that we don’t feel we deserve better than the scum on this earth. Maybe we feel that the mistreating is what we deserve and we stay around because it’s some form of punishment? I don’t know. I’ve thought about that. Or is it that we have a sticker on our foreheads that state “vulnerable” so these people find us easily? Who knows. What do you think?